Blue Black and African .... THIS is my life

wedding planning and the rest of the week

2009-03-21T14:42:00.000-07:00

There is only one way your husband should react to saying i do.
I got that JOY JOY JOY JOY down in my heart!!

So lets see we are just about 5 months exactly away.

I will put the deposit on the location this week... YAY for tax refunds !!

I have a wedding planner now: Eboni aka Judy Holiday-

She loves me, she understands i may be calm and chill now BUT will prolly act crazy come August, I think she is ready, and like i said she loves me:

she came by the other night and we made it happen, i changed my colors again. I think i have my photographer and my invitation website, thats gonna be fresh a wedding website LOL.

In reality TV. i missed everything this week with overtime and wedding planning i cant find time for my shows LOL

but i did see I love money: poor bones =( i dont know what they were thinking.

MUSIC: I listen to this song a few times this morning and it made me feel great. I love good music.

3/16

2009-03-16T15:24:00.000-07:00

have a strong and successful week.

its NOT in vain

Please baby Please

2009-03-13T08:37:00.000-07:00

Because Nikki Likes Books Babies and Black People

For nikki + plus updates

2009-03-11T08:32:00.000-07:00

Ok now we can really get some planning jumping off. Im going to go and put the deposit on the location next month for sure.

After that I really don’t all the way know. I have a wedding planner now even though I haven’t met with her yet, she is one of my best friends we can knock this out in no time.

Speaking of friends NIKKI BLAK is having a birthday again this year. I guess she gone have one every year for the next 90 or so years so I betta get to remembering. I have been low key looking for gifts for her since like Jan. I aint found shit.

So I thought I would put together a lil montage of video’s for her from now until her birthday

The first video for nikki is. We don’t rock tracks like that.

Cuz what nik can do is some HAIR.

This video really touched me because how she spelled MESS. Im confused

Im sure you are wondering how come i have not talked about the great reality television that i have been watching. so let me just recap.

I Love Money: how old is safari? her voice is killing me. I cant wait for IT to start talking more because he is special.

on that note it came to me the other night when i was half watching Harlem heights, that i like foolishness. how the fuck want to see a bunch of people way younger then me making more money and doing more shit. i dont.

maybe i am a hater and i just like watching girls fight and act silly.

did you see the fight on bad girls club. oh shit google it. LOL

also for nikki:

Have a great day folks

I really need my own reality show ...

My son is crawling for real. just so you kno

Its Friday

2009-03-06T08:51:00.001-08:00

because it is Friday and so far i have not done one more thing to plan this weeding outside of looking at magazine.

in goodnews my lil sweet six month old is in his own room.

so have a laff on me:

This lil girl made my morning

The wedding Count down BEGINS

2009-03-01T21:43:00.000-08:00

Let the Count Down Being.
Our wedding is Set for August 16, 2009 3:00pm

For the record it is NO easy task to plan a wedding with little to no money, working a FULL time Job, caring for a 6 month old and still trying look good for your partner. No matter how much you are in love its work to plan a wedding on a TIGHT budget.

Every day i think, Lets just go to the court house on Wednesday I'll take a long lunch or something. LOL

But instead we keep planning.
My girlfriend said something MOST important. " do you want a Wedding or a Marriage" we i said marriage, she said then everything else will work out.

so i will from time to time update you on the planning of this wedding.

We have the location (for the most part) Its a place in Pasadena and because i am still planning and i have not put my deposit down all you will get is a picture. cant have you up and steal my location.

$2,400 for reception and ceremony i think its a really good price. It seats 175 people. the wedding will be outside the reception will be inside. with a bar if we want. plenty of parking and great locations for pictures. some awsome architecture and beautiful landscaping. For the most parts i am 100% pleased with the spot. But until i give them some money.
I still have options. I want to make this a special, unique and memorable night for My man and I, and all the family and friends who are able to come out.

Friday night we started thinking what if we pick something different. something REALLY different. if we have way less people. if we have it at a like beach front or something like that.
BUT
WHY when you say wedding the price goes up thousands. If i say party its one price wedding its a WHOLE new monster.

So we prolly gone be right at this spot in Pasadena.

We almost had the damn wedding in the front of are apartment building, it really pretty.

What we have(sorta): Location , Honey moon location
What we need: Dress, suit,bridal party, Flowers,DJ's, Photographer,Make- up artist,Hair stylist, Decorations, Cake .... and i am sure a bunch more shit.

5 months 3 weeks

To help you get through work

2009-02-25T22:20:00.000-08:00

When you have a 6month old work 40 hours a week and take the train an hour in and out and planning a wedding on a BUDGET! You can sometimes find joy in DUMBSHIT. Just because.
I do understand that i could be writing about how beautiful my son and my life are HOWEVER. that would be just a tad bit boring.
so this is to help get you through your work day.

OH shit... Danger Ray J of Love

2009-02-11T11:46:00.000-08:00

OH shit - Danger from Ray J of love.... not so innocent!!

I knew there was something about her that I just didn't really like. She gave off this really too good for your dumb shit attitude. But you are on a reality show in hopes of becoming the girlfriend of the muthafukka who released his OWN sex tape. Com on!!

So lets be real when you thought about coming on the show you had to have at least a tad bit of HOE in you.

So in my random searching while I was at work I come across this.

PORN NUDE BUSH.... it was to nasty to keep in my blog sorry

Maybe this is what she calls artistic, and I guess it is, im not the judge.

Then I was like they have only showed one ep. of your show and now you at the Grammy’s …. Really Monica really

Ray J of love

2009-02-10T23:10:00.000-08:00

2nd ep.

Nothing stands out. They are fake. 1st why would you think ray j is really gone fall in love with you, really.

the big girl is gone and the mexican girl that said nigga( i was pleased with that)

when he had the girls do a video cam talk i was like i have dated a dude on the road and i for sure would not give him a painting. YOU CANT PAINT. that shit looked BAD.

a rapp....o my lord this hoe was terrible 100% bad "if it aint about dollars it aint about Nathan" who is Nathan?? silly bitch, get off my tv.

chardonnay was the best to me, she did a poem that was not bad and then a banana split on her body. it was fresh. The big girl did a belly dance and it was ALL belly.

the hoe danger goes on a date with ray j and makes out with him. 2nd ep. FOR REAL is the rock of love?? LOL

but really i was most bothered by what they wore, on a yacht. now i am not a baler however i have seen enough movies to know that going on a big ass boat is NOT like going to the beach. they had on beach clothes and sneakers.... get your life together

to tell the truth nothing about this ep made me say i cant wait til next week.

Ray J of love coming soon

2009-02-10T11:49:00.000-08:00

So i really had all intention to have my ray j blog up however. Im in L.A. and there was slow speed chase on tv and i was distracted. folks thought it was DJ Khalid. but it was a regular ass balling business man in a white Bentley.

Bentley leads police on slow-speed chase in Los Angeles

tonight i got you tho.... raj j coming soon

The Real Clip

2009-02-05T14:22:00.000-08:00

Black Dynamite

2009-02-05T09:15:00.000-08:00

I only Found out about this, last week.

Some Folks LOVE IT!! To me it seems rather CornBall.

But This is just some shit, you Prolly should know about
AND its funny for the most part.

Some info: Michael Jai White stars as Black Dynamite, a man who used to work for the CIA. When his brother gets killed by “the man” and he finds out that “the man” is feeding the local orphans dope, he sets his sights on a path of ass-whooping. No one is immune from Black Dynamite’s fists and guns. The movie has gunplay, kung fu, sex and smack talk. It might not be your cup of tea, but that doesn’t stop this trailer from being awesome

Hope you LOVE It read more about it and have a GREAT DAY. http://www.blackdynamite.com/trailer

For The Love of RAY J

2009-02-03T16:12:00.000-08:00

The women, I mean girls are outrageous and I love it. I do I do.

It appears that it is going to be a pretty foolish show. Tons of jokes and Do Yo Daddy Know you do it like THAT! moments

So I wont recap the show but I WILL recap the women in no particular order –
Picture then Name:

Danger: tattoo on her face. Wack wack wack. She is pretty, really however get your shit right you going for the pin up thing with the fire red lips?? If you gone do it do it. She made it seem like she was better then the other girls because they were all over him. "they are making themselves look like sluts" BUT you got on panties and bra. Now I am no angel but if you walking around in your panties and bra just like the "sluts" whats that make you. I'm just saying.
She is very pretty in that racially confused kinda way.

Chardonnay: 100% why we watch shows like this, who are these girls that feel that strongly about shit. She was feeling no kinda way about pulling her leg up over head and banging her booty on the floor NO KINDA way. Talking about "haters", but then when he (rayj) didn't pick her right away and saved her til the end she was in tears because she showed to much of her hoe to soon. She's a stripper maybe her lines are too blurry

Cocktail: she didn't stand out to me but I hear she is the same girl from bad girls club season 1. Get a real job!!

Feisty: so far she may be my favorite she is over the top. Kissing his face and clowning. She seems to be comfortable already.

Genuine: The worse weave on the show!! She knew atleast 2 weeks ahead of time that she was going to be on TV. Carry yo ass to the shop and get that top of the line weave. The only "thick" one on the show, but she just looks raggedy

Hot Cocoa: why?? Why was she there?? She's gone now but really why. I guess she was supposed to fit in the Whitney Huston type.

Lil' Hood: I predict that she will get out of pocket real soon. Trust

Naturalle: she was pretty im sure we will see her in some low budget movies around LA

Unique: not fly, she looks washed out all one color and then baby pink lipstick. I see her
steez I guess she is a Natural hoe. Hoodrat in a head wrap. Bet she gone have a head wrap on at some point . trust.

Caviar: HUH? WHAT? I don't know what she said the whole show. She looks a lil like a man to me. but I hear she is a stripper, or a hoe. The jury is still out. She still a man !!

Atomic Bomb: Her voice is annoying; I had to take a restroom break.

Cashmere: I think you did the splits. IDIOT! ("im not looking for a splitter"-rayj)

Stacks: Or maybe it was You….. IDIOT

Stilts: Crickets (yawn)

Do yo Daddy know you do it like that. WOW!!!

The Kids love Hip Hop

2009-01-29T18:10:00.001-08:00

Put a Ring on It.... work it out

2008-10-23T11:00:00.000-07:00

I dont own one Beyonce tape or CD. I just never bought her stuff, we were talking about diffrent stuff then i was just a hater, then she got married right when mbela asked me, tryna steal my shine BITCH! however, this new song is HOT!

Now if you have been reading my blog for sometime then you recall my great relationship stories, we had coolbreeze, bigdraws,the rapper, the comedian, i never talked about the cop or the 5%er but they were all there.

So now that i have clearly fallin in love and moved 100% on, i get random messages like "WOW i cant believe you are having a baby" or this one was great ngh said "let me kno if i can help you with anything" i reply with "Oh my bad did i not metion that i am getting married and for the most part live my life as a married women, o my bad, but yeah i wont be needing you."

This song is great also because i was like no one wants to hear poems about how super happy i am, but im sure it would be funny to hear about how dudes be shocked when you move on. or what about when you be honest and say well you kno we were never a real offical couple, we were dating.

Needless to say the video is hot too, got me doing crunches, well not really (shit i just had surgery) LOL
but i did put on my layztrimmer.... LOL

www.layztrimmer.com yes i really bought it... Dont Judge me !!